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Loving Your Right Now: Every Home is a “Forever Home”

I’m 26 and I don’t have a driver’s license. Sometimes if I’m extra sweet (and do lots of begging), my husband still let’s me take the car, granted I don’t go far. So, I recently …

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Devotion

3 Reasons You Don’t Take Accountability for Your Home

Have you ever turned away from a mess in your home, convinced that because you didn’t create it, you don’t have to be the one to fix it? Whether it be the money, the domestic …

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Devotion

On Loving a Brotha: Why I’m Sweet on Black Men

Who is the strongest person you know? If you’re an Israelite,  you are probably going to say it’s your mother.  Our mothers are indeed strong women,  and often times because they have no choice. No …

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Devotion Homemaking

When You Can’t Get It All Done

“Then Jesus went about all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues, preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing every sickness and every disease among the people. But when He saw the multitudes, …

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Devotion Homemaking

Mommy Solo Date & Why You Should Get Out

Virginia has consistently been seeing sub 50 degree weather since mid December. There are of course rare occasions in which we get up to 65, sometimes 70, and my husband is like “Asha! You HAVE …

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Devotion

The Thing I’m Most Afraid to Do

What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it? A thought-provoking prompt from WordPress. I think I have plenty of goals, and many of them intimidate …

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Devotion Homemaking

Loving Your Right Now: Every Home is a “Forever Home”

by Raabasha Alohalanion May 30, 2025May 30, 20253 Comments on Loving Your Right Now: Every Home is a “Forever Home”

I’m 26 and I don’t have a driver’s license. Sometimes if I’m extra sweet (and do lots of begging), my husband still let’s me take the car, granted I don’t go far. So, I recently …

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Devotion

25 Lessons from 25 Years

by Raabasha Alohalanion January 7, 2024January 7, 2024Leave a Comment on 25 Lessons from 25 Years

Publishing note: Pink Side (Patreon) members read this article 14 days early! I will also be sharing this as a podcast episode for members only 🙂 I just turned 25 December 14th. At 25 I …

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Devotion Etiquette

My Feminine Self-Care Routine (Low Maintenance)

by Raabasha Alohalanion January 30, 2023February 7, 20254 Comments on My Feminine Self-Care Routine (Low Maintenance)

Self-care has become quite a buzz in the last few years. Particularly with the onset of the ‘pandemic’ has self-care and the idea of personal boundaries come to the forefront of our lives. People were …

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3 Reasons You Don’t Take Accountability for Your Home

by Raabasha Alohalanion May 16, 2025May 16, 20252 Comments on 3 Reasons You Don’t Take Accountability for Your Home

Have you ever turned away from a mess in your home, convinced that because you didn’t create it, you don’t have to be the one to fix it? Whether it be the money, the domestic …

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On Loving a Brotha: Why I’m Sweet on Black Men

by Raabasha Alohalanion April 21, 2025April 21, 2025Leave a Comment on On Loving a Brotha: Why I’m Sweet on Black Men

Who is the strongest person you know? If you’re an Israelite,  you are probably going to say it’s your mother.  Our mothers are indeed strong women,  and often times because they have no choice. No …

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Devotion Homemaking

When You Can’t Get It All Done

by Raabasha Alohalanion April 11, 2025April 11, 20256 Comments on When You Can’t Get It All Done

“Then Jesus went about all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues, preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing every sickness and every disease among the people. But when He saw the multitudes, …

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Devotion Homemaking

Mommy Solo Date & Why You Should Get Out

by Raabasha Alohalanion February 14, 2025February 14, 20251 Comment on Mommy Solo Date & Why You Should Get Out

Virginia has consistently been seeing sub 50 degree weather since mid December. There are of course rare occasions in which we get up to 65, sometimes 70, and my husband is like “Asha! You HAVE …

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Devotion

The Thing I’m Most Afraid to Do

by Raabasha Alohalanion February 3, 2025February 6, 20252 Comments on The Thing I’m Most Afraid to Do

What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it? A thought-provoking prompt from WordPress. I think I have plenty of goals, and many of them intimidate …

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Devotion Homemaking

Reflections on Ancient Israelite Women

by Raabasha Alohalanion December 3, 2024December 3, 2024Leave a Comment on Reflections on Ancient Israelite Women

I think of my foremothers often… There are mornings when my day begins with the quiet stirrings of my children, their voices carrying the promise of joy and the certainty of responsibility. As I move …

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Devotion Homemaking

Tiny Home, Big Living

by Raabasha Alohalanion November 19, 2024November 19, 20244 Comments on Tiny Home, Big Living

Most of my life, I lived in a 1400 square foot three bedroom two bath home with a big yard, exterior laundry facilities and detached garage. We had a tall old magnolia tree that bloomed …

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Motherhood

Motherhood isn’t important enough to write about, is it?

by Raabasha Alohalanion September 4, 2024September 4, 20243 Comments on Motherhood isn’t important enough to write about, is it?

Left without words I don’t have anything important to say. At least not right now. It’s been five months since I’ve had my second child. My first son. Five months. That’s still wild to me. …

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New Year Reflections: We’re More Than Clean Homes and Hot Meals

by Raabasha Alohalanion May 26, 2024May 26, 20242 Comments on New Year Reflections: We’re More Than Clean Homes and Hot Meals

It’s a New Year, if you’re an Israelite following the Biblical Calender. The time of blossoms and blooms. Renewal, reflection, and recreation. And the perfect time to set goals, reduce habits that don’t serve us, …

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Raabasha Alohalani
Raabasha Alohalani

You can call me Asha. I'm an Israelite ama (mother) and ishsha (wife) who loves Passover, kale chips, and talking about all the wonderful things our awesome ELAHA can do!

Join me as I uncover the joys of Set Apart Homemaking and the act of worship that is being a present wife.

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Lately I’ve had to remind myself: being somewher Lately I’ve had to remind myself: being somewhere else in my mind makes me miss the beauty right in front of me. 

Homemaking isn’t just chores and checklists, even though it feels that way. It’s a holy rhythm. A quiet offering. And when I slow down enough to be present, I hear the Father whisper into the small things. 

Here are 3 ways I’m leaning into presence as a homemaker, straight from Scripture: 

1. Start your day with intention – “She looks well to the ways of her household…” (Proverbs 31:27). 

I take a moment before the day begins to ask, What does my home need today? What does my heart need to give? 

Not only does this help me be productive, it helps me to also prioritize so that I don't attempt to "get it all done".

2. Serve with gentleness – “She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.” (Proverbs 31:26). 

Whether I’m folding towels or settling little hearts, I want my words to match my hands—gentle. 

It's easy to be hardened when we are pouring into others all day with little receiving or recognition. This is where intentional gentleness becomes paramount. 

3. Let your hands follow your heart – “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might…” (Ecclesiastes 9:10). 

I’m learning that wholeheartedness in small tasks plants seeds of peace in my home. 

And these seeds produce the kind of fruit that will impact my family for generations, even if I can't see it right now. 

Being fully present is one of the greatest gifts we can offer our homes, daily and Maker. And it's also the greatest gift we can offer ourselves. 

The grass isn't greener. You ARE making the best use of your time, right at home. Your gifts ARE being used and you WILL be compensated, beyond measure. 

Stop wishing you were doing something more exciting, and just enjoy the little things. 

🩷read 3 Reasons You Don't Take Accountability for Your Home, now on the blog

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📖 "A brother is born for adversity..." But do w 📖 "A brother is born for adversity..." But do we truly honor our brothers' strength?

🙏🏾 "Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men." - Romans 12:17

💪🏾 Our community celebrates strong Black women, we are known for our strength. But what about our brothers?

👑 Like David who faced Goliath, our grandfathers and fathers fought systemic giants with quiet dignity and unrecognized courage (and still fighting)

🤫 "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." (Proverbs 27:17) Yet how can we sharpen each other when pain remains unspoken?

❤️ Every year i learn more and more from the brothers in my life, and I am always astounded by the silent wounds they carry.

🌱 "Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." - Philippians 2:4

🕎 I'm sweet on our brothers because Ephesians reminds us to "submit to one another out of reverence for Christ"

🕊️ May we build each other up as Thessalonians teaches, seeing the divine strength in both our sisters AND brothers

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Life at times may feel like too much for one woman Life at times may feel like too much for one woman, but what did you think would happen when you prayed for your cup to “runneth over”? 

💧Learn to let it flow. Harvest the fruit that you can reach, and allow the rest to cycle its course. 

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Why do you care so much about what the world think Why do you care so much about what the world thinks? Why let the world set the standard for what YOU do?

No, home is not always perfect. Our children are not always behaving the way we want or hitting the milestones we desire of them. Our husbands aren’t always what we need them to be. 

But the grass isn’t greener on the other side. It may look like it, until you get there, and from that position you’ll see your own grass from a new perspective. 

You will see that you were chasing grass while you already had a garden in bloom. 

Don’t be that wife or mom constantly consuming and devouring images of boss babes, if that’s not where you want to be.

The Torah (Bible) says do not look upon thy neighbor’s belongings to covet them. 

It’s ok to tune out the world, to protect our own minds. Not just the wars, tragedies and folly. But the “empowerment” (read: capitalism and slavery) too
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