I’m 26 and I don’t have a driver’s license. Sometimes if I’m extra sweet (and do lots of begging), my husband still let’s me take the car, granted I don’t go far. So, I recently …
25 Lessons from 25 Years
Publishing note: Pink Side (Patreon) members read this article 14 days early! I will also be sharing this as a podcast episode for members only 🙂 I just turned 25 December 14th. At 25 I …
My Feminine Self-Care Routine (Low Maintenance)
Self-care has become quite a buzz in the last few years. Particularly with the onset of the ‘pandemic’ has self-care and the idea of personal boundaries come to the forefront of our lives. People were …
Honor Your Kids’ Humanity, Honor Their Childhood
Kids only get 1 (one) childhood. One chance to be carefree, wild, and imaginative. The one chance they have in life to waste time, be messy, sleep, and play with bubbles in the tub. Unfortunately, …
When Your Past Doesn’t Define Your Purpose: A Word About Rahab
I’ve been thinking a lot about labels lately. You know, those heavy words that people pin on us—sometimes deserved, sometimes not, but always seeming to stick longer than we’d like. As I prepared my heart …
3 Reasons You Don’t Take Accountability for Your Home
Have you ever turned away from a mess in your home, convinced that because you didn’t create it, you don’t have to be the one to fix it? Whether it be the money, the domestic …
On Loving a Brotha: Why I’m Sweet on Black Men
Who is the strongest person you know? If you’re an Israelite, you are probably going to say it’s your mother. Our mothers are indeed strong women, and often times because they have no choice. No …
When You Can’t Get It All Done
“Then Jesus went about all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues, preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing every sickness and every disease among the people. But when He saw the multitudes, …
Mommy Solo Date & Why You Should Get Out
Virginia has consistently been seeing sub 50 degree weather since mid December. There are of course rare occasions in which we get up to 65, sometimes 70, and my husband is like “Asha! You HAVE …
The Thing I’m Most Afraid to Do
What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it? A thought-provoking prompt from WordPress. I think I have plenty of goals, and many of them intimidate …
Reflections on Ancient Israelite Women
I think of my foremothers often… There are mornings when my day begins with the quiet stirrings of my children, their voices carrying the promise of joy and the certainty of responsibility. As I move …
Tiny Home, Big Living
Most of my life, I lived in a 1400 square foot three bedroom two bath home with a big yard, exterior laundry facilities and detached garage. We had a tall old magnolia tree that bloomed …
